PAIN! A great and yet not so great way of changing people

So if you're experiencing mental, emotional, physical or social pain, it's guaranteed whatever personality that underwent that will be changed. SUCH IS THE POWER OF PAIN! It made me forgo my sophiscitation and shouting in caps but oh well, this might be temporary so bear with me.
When you experience pain, an extremely negative emotion, you will react to it. The universal rule of action and reaction will apply. Negativity and positivity has three effects, the Will, For and Against.

Doing things that Will remove pain or do something to stop it. This usually does action and that action will change the person, not the pain itself. Will Pain creates reasons to change. These usually change people socially and physically, as such events could include torture (Doing things to avoid the threat) or blackmail, or something more innocent like not stepping on that part of the sidewalk so you won't get hurt or not wear that type of clothing to not be bully targets.

For Pain usually has worse effects. For Pain would mean the wish to feel pain. This would damage the person psychologically and emotionally though. Maybe this could be enduring pain to avoid a worse one, but still feel aftereffects.

Against Pain would be for resisting pain. If you let pain overtake you, it will probably give negative effects to your personality (like me, a bigger fear of pain and also being a spoiled brat and crying to mommy to get these wounds of me). Maybe you can resist and your mind will break from the effort or you will become stronger.

AWESOME! It seems my trauma hasn't ended (probably since I need to be healed more)
Anyway, thank you for reading!